I desperately need help.

For two months now there’s been a growing hard lump about the size of a grape that’s in a VERY STRANGE position to be either a hemorroid or vulvar cancer… It resides about an inch away from my anus, a half inch away from my pertonium, and another half inch away from the bottom of my vagina on the left side. For the last two months I’ve been treating it with hemorroid cream and it’s fluxuated between getting better and worse for no explainable reason. Yet for the last two weeks or so I’ve been experienceing a growing discomfort with it, unyil finally last night when I went to the bathroom (to go #1) and wipe I discovered blood on the paper. To my horror, the bumps center is gone (the size of the tip of my pinky finger) and tissue, bleeding tissue is protruding out through it a short ways. WHY is there tissue coming out of it???? And what is it!?!?

Help

Ok my external hemorrhoid is somewhat tiny..probably about the size of the nail on your pinky finger. I’ve had it about 3 days and don’t really feel it at all, it’s just a little sore but nothing serious at all. Today I noticed that it was bleeding though. Does this mean that it’s serious and that I should go to the doctor? I read that most hemorrhoids heal up on their own but now mine is worrying me since it has started bleeding. Should I go to the doctor or just wait and see if it starts getting better. Also, about how long do they take to heal up..a few days, two weeks, longer?