Okay so first of all i dont want to give all of the datails to everyone so if u want to u can email me and i will give more details. please it would really help. I am 18 and my bf of 4 years is 21. We started having sex 2 weeks ago. And tonight we did anal and i hated it but i told him i liked it. Then later i told him i didnt because i didnt feel a romantic connection and i felt taken advantage of…and well it really hurt. and we got into this fight about how i shouldnt lie…and then he was saying how i have to please him and stuff.
Iv worked hard to keep a relationship with him because he is black and my parents really didnt like him at first and they still have a problem with it. im thinking it would be less stressful to break up with my bf but…i think i love him…
we have been fighting alot and i just dont kno how to handle everything. i fight with my bf and when im not with him im fighting with my family.
please fgive me some advice?
thankyou.
Email me: phebe.montgomery@yahoo.com

I am only 15 years old and I think that I might have an external hemerrhoid. I have heard that alcohol increases your chances of getting, but since I’m only 15 I don’t drink it. But I do use rubbing alcohol on my face for acne. Please give serious answers, and if you know what I have, hemorrhoids or not, please tell me a cream, or some cure. I have no problem asking my parents for it.

Is there anything besides the doctor and surgery? I’m desperate! I’m only 14!! I have already informed my parents. It’s annoying and painful.
please help?
and i am not obese. regular size.

This is extremely embarrassing to ask, but anyway…

About a year ago I noticed a little blood on the toilet paper after I took quite a large poop, nothing major, it was just a little spot so I thought nothing of it.
I’ve always had difficulty passing a stool, and have usually had to strain really hard to get one out, causing quite a lot of pain. After I’ve done this, however, there is no pain whatsoever.
Over the past two weeks or so, I’ve had extra trouble passing a stool, due to straining so hard. After I’ve done, I noticed blood dripping in the toilet and bright, red blood on the toilet paper.
About an hour ago I took a very hard poop, and there was quite a lot of blood. I tried to minimize my straining as low as possible, and hardly didn’t at all, but there was still blood.
I’ve looked into this I figure I either have an anal fissure, or hemorrhoids. I’ve felt around for a lump and there doesn’t appear to be one on on my exterior. There’s so pain or blood after I’ve passed a stool. Does this sound more like an anal fissure or an internal hemorrhoid?
I’m extremely terrified right now. Depending on which I’ve got, is it dangerous, and will it go away on its own? What changes in my diet do I need to take? I’ve tried drinking quite a lot of water and eating sources of fiber over the past couple of days to get my stools normal, but this hasn’t worked so far. I don’t want to tell my parents. I’m really hoping this will go away on its own, I’m just scared.
Thank you.
If worst comes to worst, and I have to tell my parents, I’ll tell my mum. How can I tell her about this? What should I say?

He had bowel cancer at the sametime as my mum. She died after trying two lots of chemo. He survived after an operation and chemo. He has been well until about 6 weeks ago when he seemed to be more tired than usual. He has now lost his appetite and is hot all the time. He is also yellow. His doctor has told me that blood samples show the cancer has probably returned.My Dad is very scared and wants to know what to expect. He will not have any more chemo and is now too frail to have any surgery. What can I expect to happen? How can i help him?Has anyone else had two parents suffer this way?And how can I stay strong for him – it is history repeating itself as I nursed Mum to the end.