This is extremely embarrassing to ask, but anyway…

About a year ago I noticed a little blood on the toilet paper after I took quite a large poop, nothing major, it was just a little spot so I thought nothing of it.
I’ve always had difficulty passing a stool, and have usually had to strain really hard to get one out, causing quite a lot of pain. After I’ve done this, however, there is no pain whatsoever.
Over the past two weeks or so, I’ve had extra trouble passing a stool, due to straining so hard. After I’ve done, I noticed blood dripping in the toilet and bright, red blood on the toilet paper.
About an hour ago I took a very hard poop, and there was quite a lot of blood. I tried to minimize my straining as low as possible, and hardly didn’t at all, but there was still blood.
I’ve looked into this I figure I either have an anal fissure, or hemorrhoids. I’ve felt around for a lump and there doesn’t appear to be one on on my exterior. There’s so pain or blood after I’ve passed a stool. Does this sound more like an anal fissure or an internal hemorrhoid?
I’m extremely terrified right now. Depending on which I’ve got, is it dangerous, and will it go away on its own? What changes in my diet do I need to take? I’ve tried drinking quite a lot of water and eating sources of fiber over the past couple of days to get my stools normal, but this hasn’t worked so far. I don’t want to tell my parents. I’m really hoping this will go away on its own, I’m just scared.
Thank you.
If worst comes to worst, and I have to tell my parents, I’ll tell my mum. How can I tell her about this? What should I say?

My butt is bleeding, but I’ve never ever had sex or anything related to that. So I’m definitely not pregnant. What could have caused my butt to bleed?

Is it definitely hemorrhoids?
How can I make it go away? Will it go away automatically?

HELP! Thanks!
I do eat fruits everyday. And veggies.

But I eat a lot of Chinese food (not fast food).

How do I get more fiber in my food? Where is fiber found?

I do notice that my stool has been a little hard. And I don’t drink a lot of water.

Does this go away on its own?
also, should I try not to poop for a while? Or should I continue and let it bleed?

This has been going on for maybe 2 weeks?!?!?

i eat lean meats, lots of fish, tons of veggies, egg whties, and some almonds or peanut butter. i also drink a lot of water, and a lot of green tea (without added sugar)

well a low fat, low carb, high protein, high fiber diet cause muscle loss?
how fast well i lose on this diet?
do you think i would be able to stick to it?

i also do an hour of cardio 6 days a week, and weight training 3 days a wweek

for the past 3 days
my poop is very thin like a pencil
and i have hard time pooping it out

i drink a lot of water and fiber

and my stomach keep rumbling
if my pooping wont be normal after 5 days im going to tell my mom about it

and can hemorrhoid cause thin stools?

I’m 25 and never had any problems with hemorrhoids before. I have one internal hemorrhoid which hangs out ( i know gross). I’ve been putting Preparation H on it. It helps with the itching and pain but it has not gotten smaller. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks
I do drink a lot of water and I don’t strain when I go to the bathroom. I did have a constipation problem about a month and half ago but not any more.