Or any other ideas? I can’t seem to keep a diet and i think i’m just going all wrong about it. What has worked for someone else?

Have been celibate for 9 years. Recently had healthy sexual relations (the vaginal kind between male and female), and now I have a very painful hemorrhoid — what caused this and will it happen every time we have sex? I finally found the love of my life!!!!
No anal sex.
I am so grateful for these fabulous anwers. I have learned so much, especially how important diet and hydration is. My realization is that sex was not the cause, but rather the trigger for something already developed and waiting to appear.

I’ve had ’stomach’ problems for over 2 years now. I went to the gastro specialist and was immediately admitted into the hospital. I had a colonoscopy and the doctor told me I had internal hemorrhoids, a hiatal hernia, gastritis and ulcertive colitis. He gave me medicine which did absolutely nothing. After suffering for several more months I went to another doctor who performed another colonoscopy. He came back saying nothing was wrong w/me but the blood I was seeing was from the hemorrhoids. I now am in pain daily. I constantly feel as if I need to use the bathroom but also feel my insides are so inflamed that nothing really can fit through. It hurts bad. I don’t know what to do and feel so helpless and hopeless right now.
More details I forgot. I feel constantly like I have to use the bathroom but it is VERY rare that I do. I feel almost like my insides are in knots or something so it’s not an easy passage way. I strain very hard, I can’t help it. Some of my ‘insides’ come out a little, just like an inch. It is VERY tender. I have adjusted my diet. I can’t really eat anything it feels like. I feel like I can’t eat solid foods. I know spicey foods, peppers, nuts, etc make it worse but nothing is good.
Also, I assume this is from straining but I get a migraine pretty much daily when ‘attempting’ to use the bathroom…

I had my daughter 2 months ago, and now i have hemorriods. bleeding ones. it really freaks me out i mean there isnt a ton of blood maybe about the same amount as a small cut. i want to change my diet but i have to be carefull with high fiber food exspcially the veggies because they cause her a lot of gas. can i take a fiber supplement? what kind of fruits are the highest fiber content? its pretty embarassing to tell everyone on yahoo you have hemorrhoids! but what is a good treatment. i read hyrdrocortisone to reduce swelling but if its internal.. well how does that work. ew. lol thank you guys.
oh and i have really no itching or pain. just blood when i go to the bathroom. but i made my mom look (what a good mom, to look at her 22 year old daughter behind) and she said she can see them. so i guess thats what it is. it kinda feels like tearing when im going to the bathroom. ok seriously sorry if its TMI.

I am 38 weeks pregnant with my second, and I have had a problem with hemorrhoids since I was pregnant with my first and as soon as I thought they were going away, they got worse. My diet is fine, I clean thoroughly after every bowel movement, not having any BM issues, I have tried many topical ointments and nothing seems to help. The doctors said they could do more after I have my baby so I’m looking more into surgery or something that my insurance will cover. But before I have to resort to that, does anybody know anything that actually WORKS? And I mean showing a big difference kind of work. Since yesterday they have swelled massively for no apparent reason. I understand that most of you will say that since being pregnant, the extra weight has taken effect but I can assure you that’s hardly an issue. Please help. Thanks.