Hello

I am 35 unmarried female.I am suffering from piles & Urinary incontinence since 18 years.In piles(2nd stage may be) I never bleeded or pain, some times feel burning in the anal region(very rare) whenever eat nonveg or other spicy food. I try to eat with balance diet.Always feel strain in the anal region , urin bladder& urethra(in this area i feel more strain). after passing stool strain is much even stool is not hard.I alwayes feel to urinate. I feel haviness under the bladder & inurethra.If I put some stress & try to urinate with more power it passes of a few spoonfuls then a few drops at a time & stop without completely emptying the bladder.After passing stool in the morning or any time in the day -the amount of urin is large & strain is much on the bladder & urethra.The amount of urine is also much after drinking water.In the night after sleeping 2& 3 hours need to urinate,strain on bladder & urethra became low, the quantity of urine depends how much drink water.In the morning before going to pass stool,the amount of urine is less,colour is slightly yellow,doesn’t feel much strain on bladder & urethra.Now a days after drinking wateri am feeling haviness .If i have headech or fever ,the feeling to urinate is less but the colour of urine become yellow .

Urine culture-2 times-12 years& 8 years ago-nothing abnormal

Ulterasound-8 years ago-normal
But Dr. Says,she think a lot.

I love to eat sweet, some times spicy(varitions in food or in another things)
I am short tempered or sencetiv(can’t express feeling easily)also weeping more,have a lot negative thoughts , uncomfretable with cold weather.Appitite is high.Menses is regular .Thirst is normal.

Through this reason i feel so bad & having stress that i can’t live normal life .

D) The skin is___ to the bones? E) The radius is ___ to the humerus? F) The esophagus is ___ to the trachea? G) The bladder is ___ to the ascending colon? H) The sternum is ___ to the descending colon?

The answers are Superior, Inferior, Anterior, Posterior, Medial, Lateral, Proximal, Distal, and Deep.

This is for Anatomy.

My Urologist is saying I have Bladder Reflux (BR) and I need an Inter-Stim Pacemaker. After doing research I read that BR does not usually show any pain or outward symptoms but yet this Physician is in a hurry to default to this surgery and device. I am a survivor of Infantile Neuroblastoma (Cancer) and have a severely atrophied pelvis as a result of the cancer treatment. Recently I was hospitalized for severe abdominal pain (bladder area) and no urination and the "diagnosis" was Bladder Reflux which I say is BS. My take is it was either the ureter being pinched by intestines/colon in the smaller than normal pelvic area OR a muscle issue with pelvic floor or hip flexor (sp) muscles. ANY help or advice would be welcomed. I am definitely a unique case and I feel the doctors are ignoring my physical anatomy differences due to the cancer and just defaulting to the "easy" way out for them which more than likely isn’t the TRUE cause. H E L P, please.