I am 22 years old female and I have hemorrrhoids since i was 17 … its not the painful or the bleeding type so i never went to see a doctor about it but my boyfriend has been bothering me about háving anal sex for the last 2 weeks…. i am too shy to tell him about my hemorrhoids so what should i do?

I am 22 years old female and I have hemorrrhoids since i was 17 … its not the painful or the bleeding type so i never went to see a doctor about it but my boyfriend has been bothering me about háving anal sex for the last 2 weeks…. i am too shy to tell him about my hemorrhoids so what should i do?

Though i am fully satisfied with my sex life but my partner never cooperate whenever i express desire for anal sex. i have tried a few times but she complains of having pain and ultimately i have to walk out. she also has a minor problem of piles and says that because of this she can not enjoy what ia want. what do i do to make her feel comfortable and for having enjoyable anal sex.

Have been celibate for 9 years. Recently had healthy sexual relations (the vaginal kind between male and female), and now I have a very painful hemorrhoid — what caused this and will it happen every time we have sex? I finally found the love of my life!!!!
No anal sex.
I am so grateful for these fabulous anwers. I have learned so much, especially how important diet and hydration is. My realization is that sex was not the cause, but rather the trigger for something already developed and waiting to appear.