I would like all opinions on this. My story is that I have dabbled on the other side of the fence. I did sin. I was involved in a number of gay relationships. I also found myself questioning the normalcy of homosexuality. It became clear to me that hemorrhoids, bleeding and, as it was in my case, a rectal prolapse are not signs that anything is normal with the acts of homosexuality.

From here I commenced searching for answers to some big questions like what makes us orientate the way we do sexually? I met with a counselor on a weekly basis to try and resolve my issues within myself. I concluded that gender is something that we impose upon ourselves. Gender and not biological sex, which is determined by chromosomes.

I have also became open to appreciating that I had sinned against a real God, who would be able to heal me from every offense that I had committed. I and not the devil.

So that’s me in a very narrow snapshot. I have read around Answers. It appears that the general take is that homosexuality is fine and normal. I’m living proof to the contrary of that opinion and I’m not alone. The conditions I suffered from my dalliances are not at all rare. So it makes me wonder. Why do others think so highly of something that does a lot of real damage? It sounds all well and good to say homosexuality is normal. Some even try to argue that God made us/them that way. No he didn’t. I’m much convinced of the fact that we impose gender identity on ourselves.

Heterosexuality isn’t only decent. It also makes sense. The ‘equipment’ used in the act is designed to work in the act properly.

The rectum has no sexual purpose. Nerves in it can only detect motion in one direction, which is out and away from the body. The passage also allows for damage to the prostate gland.

I’m sorry if this offends anyone. I’m only sharing what I have reflected on during these last months or so.

Everyone is welcome to share his views. None of this Atheists and Christians dichotomy.
Going on how the anus works, I would say it is unusual for everyone who has an anus and uses it for that purpose, post-maker number 1.

Propaganda? I think I know my own life.
Pposter three- are you trying to compare a human, emotion-based homosexual relationship to an animal’s instinct? That would be foolish to do, not to mention plain arrogant and boorish.
Archie obviously has no experience in homosexuality. I flatted with a gentleman who himself had rectal incontinence after prolonged relationships and I guess you can call it flat out abuse of his rectum. It happens a lot, blind Archie.
The rest of you big-noting idiots (you know who you are, big talking know-nothings) know nothing and jump to delicate little conclusions that are so far removed from reality that it makes me sick.

Thanks for the rare tone of cool and distant agreement, to those who provided that.

I think I have a hemorrhoid, but I’ve never had one before so I don’t know. Not to get gross, but it hurts when I make a bowel movement, but only right as it is exiting. It’s like a stinging sensation like there’s a cut or something. My bowel movements have been drier and harder than usual- guess b/c I haven’t had time to cook good meals, always eating on the go. Then when I wipe there is a small amount of bright red blood. Sometimes I’m a little itchy there too. There are no bumps or anything that I can see, so I guess it’s on the inside. Will prep H cure this and how long will it take? I’ve had symptoms for about a week now and just started using prep H yesterday.

or the past 3 days
my poop is very thin like a pencil
and i have hard time pooping it out

i drink a lot of water and eat fiber

and my stomach keep rumbling
if my pooping wont be normal after 5 days im going to tell my mom about it

and can hemorrhoid cause thin stools?

I have a 1st stage Internal Hemorrhoid. It doesn’t bleed yet. I kept a healthy high-fiber diet and drink plenty of water for quite a time now. But still the hemorrhoid gets to me from time to time. So know I would like to get rid of them once and for all. The only problem is that I’m not sure about the consequences that the operation may have. My question is to those who have had such operation and what were the outcomes. Were you satisfied? Do you still have to keep up a certain diet? Does it bleed even after recovery? Does it hurt during constipation? Is there a sense of emptyness in the rectal area?

And most importantly I’m concerned about the day-to-day activities and sports. I myself like to be in an athletic shape so I train a lot(jumping, running, etc.) In general, What do you do now that you never done before the surgery?

Only actual experiences are welcome. Irrelevant answers and inappropriate remarks will be Reported. Thank You.