If you have minor pressure and discomfort when sitting, for approximately 3 months now, and OTC gels only help a little, is it time for a doctor?

I was under the impression doctors could only do surgery for extreme cases -whereas I am still wondering id i even have hemorroid.
OK -what I mean to ask is how and what do doctors actually do to determine if you have
them and what can be given to reduce inflamation better than OTC stuff?

i’ve notice a burning irritation for perhaps 3 days now, and ive check to see the problem and i noticed two bumps. it doesn’t hurt when i use the bathroom nor does it bleed. but when i sit or walk for a while it began to hurt. i did some online research and im pretty sure its an external hemorrhoid. ive heard it goes away by its self, but what should i do?

Since I delivered my baby 5 months ago, I suffered from external hemorrohid but it is gone , still after I have a bowel movement I feel OK for about 15 seconds and then I feel rectal pain for about 5 minutes and then I am OK for the rest of the day , can it be internal Hemorrohid?

I have been using prep h since thursday now it monday and I have had I think external ones or internal prolapsed hemorrhoids. I have been using the cream and I know they are shrinking and it doesnt hurt as much anymore but I haven’t went to the bathroom in 5 days and I am going to take a poop but didnt. I noticed that I saw a bit of blood in the toilet and on the toilet paper when I wiped. This has not happened before but I do not notice as much pain anymore and I know there shrinking. Why are they bleeding now? I need some advice before I schedule a DR. Appointment.

im wayy to embarressed to see a doc as im only 15 and id have to get my mum to take me and im not wanting to tell her.

any tips to make them go away??
it doesnt hurt or bleed or anything like that.