Ok, so i am pretty much just here to whine and vent a little because i am a pretty anal person (although i have been working on it over the past five years due to being married) and i know exactly how when and where i like to do things. My sister in law and her three children are staying with me right now because she is going through a divorce. Now mess doesn’t bother me (anymore) since i have two young girls of my own, i can handle that. I can even cope with the issues i have had to since she has been here, however i would never ever tell her these things bother me because she is going through a very very hard situation and that would just be rude, i guess i just need the opinions of strangers, to somehow make me feel better….i really don’t know why i felt to post this. Any how, today is laundry day and i have all of my loads downstairs and ready to go. Of course i am done for the night as it is 10pm. When i got down there is afternoon the stuff that i had dried early that morning was on top of the dryer and she had some stuff in the dryer in its place. Ok no big deal, it was my neices stuff and i know that she feels a little awkward. Well i took it out, folded it and set it in her room. Well here i am in bed, its ten at night, and she brings up my scrubs and says "where do you want these?" and plops them on the bed! THAT I WAS ALMOST ASLEEP IN! So i said right there is fine, and she had to go up two levels to get them to my room. I asked her if she was doing laundry and she said yes just a small load so i asked her to please leave the washer empty so i could use it tomorrow and she said ok, now she seemed a little embarassed when she said it so i think maybe she realized that i was slightly irritated…i didn’t mean to sound rude and i don’t think i did, maybe a little groggy. It’s just that i could never imagine doing that to someone! taking all their laundry out and piling it somewhere..i mean there was a laundry basket at the bottom of the dryer when she put clothes on the dryer this afternoon and just now when she brought them all the way up to me!! ugghh!!! Anal or not i think this situation would bother anyone….and i right to be slightly annoyed or am i just being to anal????

I don’t want to spend my youth without having at least a friend. But that’s what it is now. And of course i want to experience love too. Problem is i’m a quiet person and i don’t do any activities, don’t go out( with people). Aside from that i have many dieases and injuries piling up , so i don’t even see how i can find strength to do anything.exampe i have strong pain in colon due to hemorroids or anal fissure or something… it hurts so bad so i’m afraid to do anything social because when i have that i feel like dying,, it would be embarrasing. I can’t do any of the traditional stuff people do, like talking to girls.. or going on dates. I never had that culture, i actually never met any girls … i really don’t even know how to go about it.

Around my anal ring there is a bump the size of a pea, there is a bruise-like discoloring around it, and feels like a bruise. I can assume it’s a perianal haematoma or an external pile. Since it is just a collection of blood that popped from a vein, would it be possible to use a needle and take out the blood clot like how one would treat a blister, or leave as is…?

I am undergoing the tedious task of organising my music on my iTunes.

Upon completing everything for the artist 3OH!3, it looked 100% how I wanted it to:
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Then I got to 30 Seconds To Mars and no matter what I do (I’ve tried almost everything including moving the actual file about) nothing seems to let me group the artist’s album together:
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Does anyone know how to fix this?
As a very anal and slightly ocd person, this is going to irritate me like crazy, as if I had crabs, piles and thrush at the same time.
@xXxSIDESHOWxXx That didn’t work.
@Ralph Do you mean change all the info on the actual file/folder or in iTunes?

I’m not finish with it, and this is just part of it. Let me know your opinions.

Holly watched Savannah raid through her shopping bags as she searched for the outfit she was going to wear to the party. If she got to go, that is. Holly didn’t think it was a good idea for Savannah to go. She didn’t know what she was doing. For all she knew they could have been freaks.
"Savannah, stop." ordered Holly. "My mom already said you weren’t going."
"Thanks to Carter Stinky Atkins!" she huffed, tossing piles of clothes onto her bed. "Why’d he even tell her anyway? He’s just jealous of him, because Marcus is cooler than him!"
Holly thought it was an immature response. She thought Carter would be jealous of Marcus, but Carter’s reason for looking out for her wasn’t inaccurate. She was a little naive.

"Lucas already got us tickets to a movie." Holly attempted. "That’s more fun than a party."
So she was lying. But she didn’t want Savannah to harp on something that couldn’t be controlled.
Savannah wasn’t listening to her. Instead, she was changing into a pair of extremely short-shorts and that golden tank-top Danielle picked out for her at the mall.
"Come on, Savannah." Elisha said. "You’re wasting your time."
"No, I’m not." Savannah said in a sing-song voice.
She walked out of the room and into the bathroom. Holly and Elisha followed her inside.
They found Savannah sitting in front of a mirror with studio lights setting up the curling iron.

"She’s actually gonna try to go." Elisha whispered to Holly.
They watched as Savannah began to curl her hair. Holly felt bad for Savannah. She knew Savannah had her heart set for the party and Marcus, but it wasn’t the end of the world. She might never see him again. What the hell was Savannah doing overreacting? There was plenty of other fish in the sea.
"Baby, you’re making a huge mistake." Elisha said, stroking her hair. "He’s not worth it."
"It is worth it." pouted Savannah. "And I’m pissed that Holly chickened out."
Holly looked guiltily down at the floor. She couldn’t let Savannah go through with this. She had to say something.

"Okay," Holly began, getting behind Savannah and taking away the curling iron away from her. She began to curl Savannah’s hair for her. "I know I may have told you it was cool to hook up with guys, but really, it’s not a good idea. I’m sorry we’re going anal on you, but you have to trust me, you can’t do this. We’re friends, right?"
"Right," Savannah said, looking at her reflection in the mirror.
"Best friends?" asked Holly. "To the point where we love each to death."
Savannah paused for a moment. She never thought about that.
"Yes," she said, a smile forming on her face.
"So, you gotta listen to me when I tell you don’t go to the party." Holly finished.
Savannah smiled. "Okay, you’re right. I’m sorry for acting like a brat. I guess I was just anxious in getting my first kiss."
"We all get anxious about those sort of things." Elisha said. "It just means we’re human."

Holly was glad to have finally gotten through Savannah. Problems were her type of things to deal with. She could always help Savannah with problems when she needed her. Holly and Elisha hugged Savannah.
"I’m going to take a dip in the pool downstairs." Savannah announced. "You all wanna come?"
"Maybe later." Holly said. "I’m going to rest for awhile."
"Yeah, have fun!" said Elisha. "We’ll be down in a few."
Savannah left the room, grabbing her swimwear from her room. A few moments later, they heard the door slam shut.

In the living room, Maris, Danielle, and Reese were sitting on the couch chatting.
"Me and Lucas are officially going out." said Maris. "He just kissed me today."
"You guys make such a cute couple." responded Reese.
"Thank you!"
"Hey, friends." Holly said, sitting down next to Danielle.
"Hey," said Maris. "Where did Savannah go?"
"To the pool." she answered. "We’ll meet up with her later."
"Oh, that’s cool." Maris nodded.

Reese looked around, crinkling her forehead. "She said she was going to the pool?"
"Yeah," Holly said, pouring a pitcher of lemonade into a solo cup.
"Her swim stuff is over there." Reese pointed to a tie-dye bikini set lying on the floor over by the kitchen. "She dropped it as she darted out of the room. I watched her."
"She was awfully dressed up to be going swimming." added Danielle.
Holly let out a muffled groan, wanting to kick herself for falling for Savannah’s trick. She was going to the party after all.
"She tricked us!" Elisha said, sounding hurt. "I don’t believe it! After she promised us she wasn’t going!"
"She didn’t necessarily promise us she wasn’t going." Holly reminded. "Anyway, we gotta notify my mom and the boys."

"Mommy?" Holly said, as she and her friends entered her mom’s room. "Savannah went to the party."
Lauren frowned. "Oh, she wasn’t supposed to do that."
"But she did." Holly said. "And we have no idea where she’s going."
"I do." Mark said. "I checked Savan