I just underwent surgery some 7 months ago at my home. But now it has again started again. My new job has just started and i am living far away from my home and family, alone. I don’t want to undergo surgery again. Please suggest me what should i do???…….. Please…………

a few months ago i started getting really sharp pains in my anus whenever i passed a bowl movement and then i’d have a really itchy anus afterwards but only for a while. i googled my symptoms and decided to buy anusol hemorrhoid cream as it was either piles or an anal fissure. i also bought fiber supplements because i knew i didnt get enough fiber in my diet. the cream gave the itching and pain instant relief and eventually i got better (or atleast i thought i had done). i stopped taking the fiber tablets cause i kept forgetting and stopped using the cream. now, a few weeks ago, after every bowel movement ive been having uncontrollable itching down there, so bad that i can’t sleep and i try hard not to itch as i heard it made it worse but i just cant help it! i started using the cream again and if anything it just makes it worse! i get no relief from it anymore! and the sharp pain has also come back when im passing stools! the itching is so bad i don’t know what to do. also there appears to be little white bumps around and near my anus but i dont know whether they have anything to do with it. i don’t want to go to the doctors that would be a last resort, and i certainly do not want to have surgery! someone help me please

a few months ago i started getting really sharp pains in my anus whenever i passed a bowl movement and then i’d have a really itchy anus afterwards but only for a while. i googled my symptoms and decided to buy anusol hemorrhoid cream as it was either piles or an anal fissure. i also bought fiber supplements because i knew i didnt get enough fiber in my diet. the cream gave the itching and pain instant relief and eventually i got better (or atleast i thought i had done). i stopped taking the fiber tablets cause i kept forgetting and stopped using the cream. now, a few weeks ago, after every bowel movement ive been having uncontrollable itching down there, so bad that i can’t sleep and i try hard not to itch as i heard it made it worse but i just cant help it! i started using the cream again and if anything it just makes it worse! i get no relief from it anymore! and the sharp pain has also come back when im passing stools! the itching is so bad i don’t know what to do. also there appears to be little white bumps around and near my anus but i dont know whether they have anything to do with it. i don’t want to go to the doctors that would be a last resort, and i certainly do not want to have surgery! someone help me please

Okay so first of all i dont want to give all of the datails to everyone so if u want to u can email me and i will give more details. please it would really help. I am 18 and my bf of 4 years is 21. We started having sex 2 weeks ago. And tonight we did anal and i hated it but i told him i liked it. Then later i told him i didnt because i didnt feel a romantic connection and i felt taken advantage of…and well it really hurt. and we got into this fight about how i shouldnt lie…and then he was saying how i have to please him and stuff.
Iv worked hard to keep a relationship with him because he is black and my parents really didnt like him at first and they still have a problem with it. im thinking it would be less stressful to break up with my bf but…i think i love him…
we have been fighting alot and i just dont kno how to handle everything. i fight with my bf and when im not with him im fighting with my family.
please fgive me some advice?
thankyou.
Email me: phebe.montgomery@yahoo.com

I have been having trouble for a while with piles, well i thought it was an anal fissure, but i went to the doctors today and discovered its wasn’t. It was piles, my doctor gave me a laxitive, that i am going to start using tomorrow and told me to drink lots of water. However i got home tonight and went to the toilet, i again strained with a bowel movement, looked into the toilet, and there was lots of blood. That has never happend before only blood on the toilet tissue. I am getting pretty scared, as i have never had anything like this before. Does this amount of bleeding mean it is healing or not :O Shall i contact my doctor, tell her it has got worse? Or should i do what she told me and if the laxitive doesnt work go back? paranoid here !! Please help!