Anal sex with hemorrhoids?
So I’m a 20 year old male and I have a 21 year old boyfriend. Long story short, we have been dating for almost 3 months and want to take it to the next step, i.e. having anal intercourse. Well I found out that I have internal hemorrhoids a little over a year ago. Basically I would bleed when I poop. Well now I take stool softeners and laxatives to help me go to the bathroom a lot easier. I drank only water, and don’t eat beef at all. I have on occasion not taken the stool softeners, and discovered that my poop hardens when I don’t, so I take them daily. How long r hemorrhoids supposed to last? Is it ok for me and my boyfriend to have sex even with my hemorrhoids? Will these hemorrhoids effect us having sex? Much help is appreciated, oh and yes my boyfriend knows about my hemorrhoids.
Tagged with: having sex • hemorrhoids • intercourse • internal hemorrhoids • laxatives • stool softeners
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angie (68)
Well obviously, use a condom. Having hemorrhoids could increase the chances of passing disease or infections.
I’d expect that it might be painful (more than anal sex is already) so take it slow and use some lube.
I have an anal fissure (yay for bleeding when you poo!) and am able to have anal sex. We just have to take our time and be gentle.
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you already know that i;am going say…please see a doctor and do not take any one advice who is not in the medical field,but i do know that sometimes hemorrhoids require surgery,so get medical attention asap and lay off the sex until you find out otherwise.
I’d hate to say it but……Boyfriends come and go but hemorrhoids are forever.
According to my mother, once you have hemorrhoids, you’ve got them. But they do go down to the point that their not visible. I recommend seeing a doctor too. He or she can probably tell you how to have anal without further irritating your hemorrhoids. I was also told that anal sex can possibly cause hemorrhoids.
Just see a doctor, that’s the only way you’ll get an accurate answer.
Good luck
you might try preparation H and lots of lube.