I need some tips about…ANAL! men and women answer please!?
I am in a relationship with this guy..
and he wants to do anal. He has talked about doing it quite alot.
I have always said no and he has always respected my descision.
sooo..
I have thought about doing it. since i like to try everything once.
so i would like to know does it hurt?
and what happens after?
Have been told you can get piles, bleeding and all sorts
aha
appreciate any help 
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angie (68)
Tell him, you would give it a thought if he does it first.
Then you will make your decision based upon his facial expressions as it is going in.
Do it when you’re really horny and been fooling around for a while, use allot of lube, and make sure he’s gentle and doesn’t just ram it in.
Lube up. Unlike the vagina, the anus has no natural lubricant. Also make sure he goes slow the first few times. Fucking like crazy will only cause damage to the sphincter and rectum. Yes it might hurt, But its up to you to decide weather or not the pain is worth the pleasure. Some girls like it, some dont. And remember your first time with vaginal sex? That probably hurt as well…But i imagine youre still doing it. Just keep an open mind….
Afterwords, make sure you know your anus will be stretched, so it may feel differently.
Yes, it’s going to hurt. Especially if it’s your first time. The key to anal is using a lot of lubricant. Use a condom also so it’s easier. Make sure he does it really gently, too . And yes, there may be a little bleeding but use the lube and condom and you’ll be fine. Oh, and you might be sore for 2 or 3 days afterwards. "/
As a girl who has done this before, I would advise you to really think about it before you do this. My ex wanted it really bad too, so I agreed, and it was the biggest mistake because that is all he ever wanted to do, ever. Not to say I never enjoyed it, but if I could go back, I would never have done it. It turned him into some sort of disgusting animal. Just think about what you are doing and be sure it is something that you actually want, not just him pressuring you.
If it bleeds,then it must be hurting.
When this guy agrees to let someone do anal sex on him, you can agree to let him do it to you. Otherwise, you need to reconsider putting your body at risk like this. There is a provision for sex: it involves your vagina, not your anus. Don’t be foolish enough to do something that is potentially dangerous, just to keep this guy. He wants anal sex for his own pleasure, not yours; and if you do it once, he’ll expect it all of the time. He’s not thinking of you at all. He’s thinking of himself, and you need to understand that!
it does hurt but it feels good, and yes there may be bleeding and soreness, good luck just remember any gurl who wont there is a gurl who willso think about it
im like 5000% sure it will hurt but just use LOTS AND LOTS OF LUBE amd u should be good, but do keep in mind that it causes hemroids and u cant hold number 2 so dnt do it to much or say hello to Preperation H and adult diapers : ) seriously!!!!!!!
It might hurt a little at first, but you can get around that by having him loosen you up with his fingers. And make sure he starts out slow and stays slow for the whole time (at least the first time). And of course lube is essential. After you do the deed, what happens depends on what you guys feel like doing. One thing that should for sure happen (if you guys are going to keep messing around) is that he either wash thoroughly or change condoms before he puts it anywhere else. You wouldn’t want to end up with a urinary tract infection.