Do people of all creeds define homosexuality as normal?
I would like all opinions on this. My story is that I have dabbled on the other side of the fence. I did sin. I was involved in a number of gay relationships. I also found myself questioning the normalcy of homosexuality. It became clear to me that hemorrhoids, bleeding and, as it was in my case, a rectal prolapse are not signs that anything is normal with the acts of homosexuality.
From here I commenced searching for answers to some big questions like what makes us orientate the way we do sexually? I met with a counselor on a weekly basis to try and resolve my issues within myself. I concluded that gender is something that we impose upon ourselves. Gender and not biological sex, which is determined by chromosomes.
I have also became open to appreciating that I had sinned against a real God, who would be able to heal me from every offense that I had committed. I and not the devil.
So that’s me in a very narrow snapshot. I have read around Answers. It appears that the general take is that homosexuality is fine and normal. I’m living proof to the contrary of that opinion and I’m not alone. The conditions I suffered from my dalliances are not at all rare. So it makes me wonder. Why do others think so highly of something that does a lot of real damage? It sounds all well and good to say homosexuality is normal. Some even try to argue that God made us/them that way. No he didn’t. I’m much convinced of the fact that we impose gender identity on ourselves.
Heterosexuality isn’t only decent. It also makes sense. The ‘equipment’ used in the act is designed to work in the act properly.
The rectum has no sexual purpose. Nerves in it can only detect motion in one direction, which is out and away from the body. The passage also allows for damage to the prostate gland.
I’m sorry if this offends anyone. I’m only sharing what I have reflected on during these last months or so.
Everyone is welcome to share his views. None of this Atheists and Christians dichotomy.
Going on how the anus works, I would say it is unusual for everyone who has an anus and uses it for that purpose, post-maker number 1.
Propaganda? I think I know my own life.
Pposter three- are you trying to compare a human, emotion-based homosexual relationship to an animal’s instinct? That would be foolish to do, not to mention plain arrogant and boorish.
Archie obviously has no experience in homosexuality. I flatted with a gentleman who himself had rectal incontinence after prolonged relationships and I guess you can call it flat out abuse of his rectum. It happens a lot, blind Archie.
The rest of you big-noting idiots (you know who you are, big talking know-nothings) know nothing and jump to delicate little conclusions that are so far removed from reality that it makes me sick.
Thanks for the rare tone of cool and distant agreement, to those who provided that.
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My kudos to you for being so honest and open. You are so right. Homosexuality is not normal. All the reasons you stated are proof, if proof is wanted or needed ! In addition, two men cannot produce a baby. Two women cannot produce a baby. Sex is for the purpose of producing babies, so plain and simple !! God gave humans the joy of sexual intimacy, and when it is done the correct way it does bring great joy and peace. When it is done the wrong way it brings hurt physically, as you mentioned, and it brings hurt mentally and emotionally, even tho those who do it will argue vehemently. One good source for those who are interested in all of this is http://www.exodus-international.org
Homosexuality may not be "normal" for YOU, but who are you to decide if it’s normal for others?
And I somehow doubt that you "used to be" a homosexual. All I see is homophobic propaganda
yes. and some of all creeds define it as immoral.
So your saying animals, who can’t impose gender on themselves, who go upon basic instincts, are not doing homosexual acts when they go male to male and such?
And I find it very hard to believe you used to be a homosexual. If anything you were in it for the shock value, but even then I still doubt you even did that.
Where did you get this from, conservapedia? LOL
I think if you got a prolapse then you did it wrong dude.
If you think the rectum has no sexual purpose, there’s something wrong with your prostate… also not all gay guys do anal, believe it or not being gay isn’t entirely about anal sex, 99.9% about love.
Homosexuality makes sense if you are homosexual, you don’t get a choice in who you love or who you are attracted to.
Congrats on holding back from saying you got aids in order to troll harder.
EDIT: did you just call me not gay as an insult? haha!
I am sad (if you are really gay) that you hate yourself so much, but I’m guessing you had anal excessively, forcefully and without lube. The anus contracts after sex back to its normal size, as does the vagina. You might as well face the fact that you’re gay and get educated before you damage yourself by doing it kinky-style. You wouldn’t get a prolapse through ‘dalliences’
Homosexuality has been a normal part of many Native American bands’ way of life, since they began to keep history. They were accepted, just as anyone else, in society.
Homosexuality is medically normal and natural. Most religions discourage homosexuality but not all. Do what is correct for you no matter what religion or others think.
Not so much since Middle Eastern (patriarchal) religion took over most of the world.
Native Americans kept the ‘third sex’ in special consideration. Ancient Greece were openly accepting of gays.
Irian Jaya (New Guinea) tribespeople have homosexual (bisexual) relations as a rite of passage into sexual adulthood.
Check out the Wikipedia section on historical homosexuality in different cultures:
"Anthropologists Stephen Murray and Will Roscoe reported that women in Lesotho engaged in socially sanctioned "long term, erotic relationships," named ‘motsoalle’."
"The first recorded homosexual couple in history is commonly regarded as Khnumhotep and Niankhkhnum, an Egyptian male couple, who lived around the 2400 BCE. The pair are portrayed in a nose-kissing position, the most intimate pose in Egyptian art, surrounded by what would appear to be their heirs."
"In East Asia, same-sex love has been referred to since the earliest recorded history. Early European travelers were taken aback by its widespread acceptance and open display. None of the East Asian countries today have specific legal prohibitions against homosexuality or homosexual behavior."
Firstly, I don’t believe for a second that you’ve ever engaged in homosexual activity, but for the sake of argument let’s pretend we believe that.
Secondly, you’re essentially saying that since you had inconsiderate partners, inadequate lubrication, a sensitive anatomy and/or a combination of the three, homosexuality isn’t for you.
Fine.
Why, based on this, would you say that it isn’t for anyone? Most gay men do not have a rectal prolapse. Most women whose partners give them oral sex suffer from increased frequency of vaginosis, but unsurprisingly – we cope. All kinds of sex have possible unwanted physical consequences.
As a bisexual girl I can tell you that lesbian sex is the least dangerous and painful kind, requiring no artificial lubrication – although presumably you have your own reasons for calling that a sin.
no not all creeds deem homosexuality as normal
religiously, very few people accept homosexuality as normal in the worlds I have come from
(Im an Orthodox Jew who converted to Christianity)
While I am tolerant of homosexuality (in fact some of my closest friends and family members are homosexual) I still think it is not "normal", yes I see it as sinful and unnatural, but in my Christian faith I also believe that we are all sinners… we all choose which sins we partake in and to each his own, I would never tell a homosexual person that they are wrong in what they believe and what they feel because I am not them, I don’t know what goes on within their minds and its not my (or your) place to judge them.
We were not created to have sexual relations with our same sex.
I believe a person gets bored with their day to day sexual activities and want to try something different. We are a world of people who believe in doing what feels good or following the crowd and it’s not a smart idea.
We were each given a unique body and brain to be able to think on our own, but some folks thinking is kinda warped to believe that homosexuality is normal. The body was not made to withstand that kind of treatment and anyone who believes it is, is not comprehending the full scope of the idea.
Whether you believe in a higher power or not, our make up was not meant to be destroyed, but to preserve and reproduce.
Well, everything in life is dangerous. And I really think that if people want to be gay, why not just let them? Seriously, it’s better to lead a happy life gay, than a miserable one straight, am I right? And I think that it’s okay that you don’t like it, or that you don’t want to be gay yourself. But why does everyone want to choose for everyone else? I mean, it’s not like you have to be in the bedroom to watch them. And it’s not like it’s going to hurt you unless you do it yourself, which is really your own choice. So why? I just don’t get it.
I forgot where I read a medical article… that homosexual acts like yours is a slow form of suicide. The particular body is not geared or designed toward the acts thereby it can not take the abuse. It could not heal either. Naturally the body degenerates later and there is a danger of contracting AIDS. Then you know what you are IN. The medical implications off course reflects the moral and biblical contents.
What’s your say…
No, homosexuality is not normal, its a disease.
The rectum has been designed to excrete waste material from body and is not made and meant for sex, as waste material represents death or dead material or matter.
May God bless you to the righteous path … Amen
You are arguing that homosexual sex is bad because it can lead to health problems (heterosexual sex can too, but you’re choosing to ignore that, I see. You also don’t mention sex between two women, presumably because it completely flattens your argument). You are also saying that this means people must *choose* to be homosexual. Do you see any logic in people choosing to be homosexual when you say it has such huge health risks? For that matter, do you see any logic in choosing to be homosexual with bigots like you going on about sin?
"are you trying to compare a human, emotion-based homosexual relationship to an animal’s instinct?"
Are you trying to dismiss a piece of very strong evidence for homosexuality being natural? I think you are. Sex is instinctual for all animals, including human beings.
Okay, this is either homophobic propaganda, or you’re just sore (literally) about injuring yourself by not doing it right.
It’s funny how the majority of practicers of anal intercourse have absolutely none of these problems…
“In our society, conventional images of male homosexuals are that they are in some way ‘feminine’ or perhaps that their sex interests make them a danger to children.
Most things people choose to do are not practiced by the majority of the population so are abnormal, but so what? It’s what makes us unique. It’s also abnormal to drive a ford, or play raquetball.
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“The first recorded homosexual couple in history is commonly regarded as Khnumhotep and Niankhkhnum, an Egyptian male couple, who lived around the 2400 BCE. The pair are portrayed in a nose-kissing position, the most intimate pose in Egyptian art, surrounded by what would appear to be their heirs.”
When it is done the wrong way it brings hurt physically, as you mentioned, and it brings hurt mentally and emotionally, even tho those who do it will argue vehemently.